Yes, it is a new year, and it is the time when many set resolutions.
Yet how long do these resolutions stick? Usually not more than a few days, weeks or months.
Why is that? Are people, weak-willed, lazy?
Have a problem you are facing but not sure how to solve it or what action to take?
Your brain can deliver you answers, but not when you when you are upset. Ironic and annoying? Too bad! it’s how things work. But, never mind, you can hack the system!
Another great question that is on the mind of not only my niece, but many of my adult clients! (Although they may express the question a little bit differently.)
The cure to this challenge lays in developing good habits of “minding your own business” at all moments.
I got this great question from my niece!
I asked her one clarifying question…What don’t you like about feeling shy?
You can’t go out and meet new people without worrying that they won’t like you…
So often when I am working with clients, I find that they are making life difficult for themselves. These are just some of the ways:
If you are reading this, you are well on the way to finding a coach. You are surrounded by amazing coaches, and only need to press the “Request a Free Session” button to get started!
First, however, I will speak in general about finding a coach.
Here are some things you can look for, before you have a free session…
You always have a choice in any given moment.
It is a choice of how to focus. What to give your attention to. Your attention is the most valuable and powerful asset you have. Your attention has the power to change your world, and change THE world.
Here is a distinction that can help you in your decision making process, and in your post-decision self-affirmation responsibilities…
Decisions are about Right Choice, not “the right choice”…
